I love a good story! How about you?
Over the course of my life I have found myself encouraged, inspired, challenged, humbled, and mentored through stories of real life experiences that individuals were brave enough to express. Whether the story is of hardship, pain, and loss or if the story is of courage, valor, or success~still my life has been impacted by the telling of a story.
It is remarkable the way we can learn, feel, or be moved to action by what others learn through the changes and challenges others experience in their lives. We can make good choices; even avoid pitfalls simply by hearing of the missteps and consequences others. I love this because WE ALL HAVE A STORY; we all have the opportunity to impact others with what our stories have taught us.
Yesterday I ran into a friend I had not seen in years, a fabulous worship leader. However, over the past 10 years she has been plagued with a disease that makes it almost impossible for her to even talk. My friend began to tell me her story, pushing out the words as best she could. She spoke of the incredible challenge and discouragement of losing the freedom to “do” what she had done for the Lord all of her life. But, she lit up as she talked of what she has been learning and that’s when the rich nuggets of wisdom began to come forth. I said to her “you need to write your story”. I new that her experience would encourage fresh growth in others.
Another dear friend has battled being overweight all her life and she has been passionately diligent over the past two years to lose the weight and become a healthier and more confident woman ~ She has taken her story to her blog; honestly exposing her challenges and failures while also celebrating her wins! I have already heard that many woman have been inspired to follow in her footsteps….to make changes because of her story!
A gal I was privileged to coach 4 years ago walked through the loss of her beloved husband while away in Hawaii celebrating their 30th anniversary; they finished snorkeling and moments later he had a heart attack right there on the beach! We spent a lot of time talking through the first 2 years of her loss; there were hard adjustments, changes, and hurts that arose through that year. Hearing how these elements made her feel helped me to more clearly understand how clumsy I can be while helping others navigate through the loss of a loved one. Her story really helped me to grow and change.
What’s your story? We all have one ( or easily MORE than just one story). Are you brave enough to tell it or write it? An honest story told to the right listener or reader can be life changing!
Take time to ponder your life/ your story. Pay attention to the nuggets of Gold you have learned from them; and at the right time…give them as away as a gift!