Being on the Hawaiian Islands in the month of August can only mean one thing! We will be surrounded by honeymooners! After encountering one or two, I soon realized that, of course, this was wedding month!
29 years ago it was “wedding month” for my husband and I! In a church with orange pews and brown panel walls, I walked down the aisle in a white dress towards my teary bridesmaids all dressed in Pink ( or Mauve, as it was known in the 80’s)! My tall young husband smiled a crooked smile my way filled with both anticipation and anxiety about the huge step we were making! 29 years later he still has that cute crooked smile! 🙂
After an Anniversary holiday in the Hawaiian Islands, Greg and I climbed onto the plane enjoying the fact that we would be sitting in the Emergency Exit seats that provide lovely leg room! Greg on the aisle, and I took the window seat keenly aware that there would be a “random” individual between us. When he came, smiling an impish grin, he slid into our row. Joseph was a newlywed…..his sweet new bride was two rows behind us. He kept looking back at her longing to have her by his side…but the plane was taking off.
Joseph was outgoing, found out he had a rich faith in Christ; he was from a family of 12 children. Learning we had been married for 29 years, he began asking questions to learn how to find success in marriage; asked good questions. This young man was eager to live life as a newlywed forever…so cute!
Our advice? Stay friends, forgive, pick your battlegrounds, pray together, continue to play, get away together, and fight the urge to fall into being partners in life~~stay pals, friends, and lovers!
Well, once I knew he had gleaned all he needed from me I was keenly aware that it was time to switch seats with his precious bride, to let them cuddle the rest of the flight. Seeing them all snuggled in from my tight seat two rows behind made me so happy. I turned to the little gal next to me and said “where are you headed?” She smiled and said “I am a newlywed”. so ….we chatted……. 🙂
Sweet, unexpected moments! Sweet reminders of how precious marriage is!! 🙂