My office is filled with decorations, games, gifts, and baby items as I prepare to give my precious Daughter in Law, Azlan, a baby shower. Not at any moment do I actually forget that I will be a grandma soon, but these items do serve as a daily reminder to me.
When I think about the kind of Grandma I want to be I find myself thinking about the Grandmothers that impacted my life; they set the bar pretty high for me.
My Nanny was musical; she played the Organ in her home beautifully. I always remember lots of home-cooked food; she liked to make jello salads! I remember sitting in front of her silver Christmas tree watching the wheel of color changing hues, thus changing the color of the tree. I also remember an old picture that showed Jesus standing at a door welcoming all those who would willing enter. The verse at the bottom said “Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.” My Nanny loved flowers. I can remember many times playing dolls in her backyard filled with sunshine and the smell of roses. I remember how my Nanny used to send me letters in her sweet handwriting. I remember all these things. One thing I do not remember, ever, was my Nanny being angry or harsh with me. I can’t recall her ever raising her voice to me at any time. I deeply appreciate that about her. I want to be that kind of grandma.
My grandma Eva had a contagious smile, she was a joyful person. I remember taking walks with her to feed the donkeys down the street, Irish music playing in her home, and the three-pronged tiny stool where I would sit in her living room and listen to her engage in interesting conversations. I remember picking figs and chasing squirrels in her backyard, and I remember that I always ended up with a “Pixie” haircut by the time I would head home after “my week” with grandma! I remember all these things.
What I do not remember, ever, was my Grandma Eva ever being too busy to talk to me. Eva never made me feel like I was in the way or a bother to her, just the opposite, she made me feel incredibly valuable and loved. I deeply appreciate that about her. I want to be that kind of Grandma.
The bar has been set high for me. However, because of my grandmothers’ impact on my life I believe I will be mindful to make my grandchildren feel as I did!
Who has impacted the person you are? Who set the bar high for you? Take time to remember and appreciate those that poured into your life; honor their impact on your life by returning the favor to those around you.
11 thoughts on “The impact of Nanny and Eva~”
You will be the best Grandma ever! No wonder you are a beautiful women, you were a darling girl.
Thank you Greg–you are a sweet man!
So many fond memories and so many memories to make as we embark on becoming grandmothers! So exciting.
So blessed we get to do this together Desiree!!!
So dear. My sweet friend–no doubt you will pay it forward in spades!
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My sweet friend–I pray this is true. Greg and I are already talking about the annual Grandparents Camp!! Thanks for that example!
I remember when Nathan was born and I was able to spend time with you, he was only one week old. I slept with him next to me, this precious little bundle. The memory is as clear as if it were just yesterday….
sweet, sweet times!
Precious. So precious.
I know I’m
Just a new mommy but can’t wait to be a grandma!
and you will be wonderful!
Diana, you were very blessed to have both of those wonderful grandmothers! It is so true that grandmothers have a great impact on their grandkids. The legacy your grandmothers left is valuable. All that they poured into you will spring forth as blessing into your grandchildren. I am just about to celebrate 20 years of being a grandmom! BTW, grandparenting is the best!